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I'm paranoid about getting bulky though. I don't care how many times people tell me that women can't get bulky, I know that's not true - I used to be on a crew team and those girls had guns!
So, I plan to do 2-3 times a week of lifting to develop my physique and then back off enough to just keep what I want. You will only continue building muscle if you continue lifting heavy frequently. At least that is what I have gathered from reading about it.
Since I don't know exactly ow much weight to start with, I think I will use the 20# weighted bar for Monday and see how it goes and pay attention to my form. If it is too light I will go up from there. If I am sore and want to die I will figure it was too heavy. I don't want to go too heavy to start and then get discouraged.